Note: To anyone that reads this I want to state that what you read is my opinion only…it is how I feel about this subject and everybody has their own opinion on this issue and we will not all agree. That is how it should be but… I do not want anyone to think that I’m being negative on this issue because I am not I’m being honest about what I believe.  Lts.♥

Now with that all said I’m going to write about the Threesome I had when I was young.

I am only writing this because Lk (The Bedroom Submissive) asked me if I would tell me story. And I have a great deal of respect for her as a blogger who gives her all to help others understand D/s and as a friend. I know she wants everyone’s opinion on this subject and I would not be posting this story otherwise.

First

1.      I feel that a threesome may work for a single person that has no attachment to a partner.

2.      Even though I feel that if you are continuing with the same couple in play there may be issues or an attachment but not as bad is it would be if you were married.

3.       A Threesome has nothing to do with being in D/s, D/S-M, or a Vanilla Marriage

4.      It is a choice of each individual or couple to decide if this is what they want to chose to do and have or not do.

5.      Some will never feel bad after they play or have a bad experience…but there will be some that will have second thoughts or doubts after the fact.  We are only human and some of us want the trill or the fantasy of having a threesome. But remember…. if everyone involved is not truly honest between each other about having a threesome before they venture into it. There will be repercussions down the line. This is important to remember if you are a married couple looking or wanting to have a threesome. Do not do it if you are doing it to please your spouse or to give them their fantasy or to make them happy if you are not comfortable or you are possessive of your own partner.

6.       The reason I say this is because if you are married and a possessive person there will be hurt between the married couple. If they can’t do it with an open heart and what out having regret or jealousy. You can have all the rules you want in place before you venture into a threesome but if you are doing it for the wrong reason then what you truly feel otherwise. It will come back to hurt you later and then it may become an issue you may not be able to mend.

7.      I want to state this also… that some of us want to believe that everything we read in a book is the way it will be or the way it should happen or the way it will happen. Wake up people its fiction or fantasy it won’t happen that way!

So here goes!

The 3 people involved were I, my Sir, and my best friend. Threesome was M/F/F

Sir and I were living together for three years but we were not married. Sir did ask me to marry him and I said no….it’s that I didn’t believe in marriage at that time in my life for reasons that are personal. At the time that this threesome happened I was 20 Sir was 21 and my best friend was 23 years old. We had our own apartment back than were every one of our friends hung out because most of our friends still lived at home with their parents. So our place became hangout central. My best friend whom I had known since junior high would stop over five days out of the week at least. Her and I would talk, play cards, go shopping or just hang and watch television. So one night she came over as usual Sir had made us a drink and we just sat and talked for a few hours about our jobs and other stupid stuff. We had another drink but we didn’t get to finish it because out of nowhere she asked if we would like to have a threesome. That she also had an attraction for me…I never seen it coming and I didn’t know what to say to her. I wasn’t into women and I never had been with another women. Since being with Sir he taught me not to close mind to try new things at least once. I knew Sir would never let me get hurt and he would always be there to protect me. So I look at Sir and he was grinning when I asked him if he wanted to have a threesome he said he was ok with it if I wanted to do it Sir left the decision up to me and I though why not I was opened mind to try anything once. So I agreed to do it with some stipulations that we would all have to agree upon before we went any farther with playing together. It never had crossed my mind at the time that any man would love to watch women on women action and that I should have asked why he agreed to have a threesome but I didn’t. My stipulations or rules were that she could not kiss Sir and there would not be any penetration from Sir with her ever during our play. We all had agreed with this arrangement. With that being said my best friend was the first one to start the action with me as Sir watched and enjoyed it. I will say I also I enjoyed it and that it was a different but pleasuring experience than with a man. There wasn’t anything that we didn’t try together on each other. Which turned Sir on even more and Sir got to enjoy two women pleasuring him to a certain point were the rules would enter in to the mix and his need was with me only. Sir did receive oral gratification from my best friend but that was all he received. This happened two other times within a six week period but I notice different things with Sir that started to bother me when we were alone I asked Sir if there was a problem and if Sir wanted to discuss it and did it happen to pertain to the threesome situation. I reminded Sir that he had agreed to it and had left the choice up to me to decide if we would do it or not. Sir said that he did agree and that he did it because he only wanted to me to be happy and that if he left the final decision to me and if I agreed to it that it was something I wanted but would never ask. My reply was you didn’t do this because you wanted to and Sirs reply was no. I asked why and his reply was that he only needs me and he does not like sharing me. The first thing that came out of my mouth is that you’re jealous of my best friend. Sir said how could I ask such a question when I made the rules and that my best friend could not kiss or have full on sex with him. That wasn’t I the one that was being jealous and possessive over him. We ended up feeling guilty and hurt at each other because we never thought to be truthful open and honest on how we felt on the matter. Sir should have just said no because he doesn’t share what he considered his even if I may never had agreed with him. I should have never accused him of jealous when here I was being possessive over what Sir could do and when I was honest with myself I was being jealous. We were not married but we were in a committed relationship. I told Sir that it was over and Sir agreed that we would speak with my best friend and say why we couldn’t continue. Well that conversation didn’t go well either because she did get attached to me. We haven’t seen or spoken to each other since that day she walked away pissed off and unhappy. Four months later Sir and I were married and we will never make a choice without being honest and open about it to each other.

So the lesson we both learned was if you venture into to something like this you better be honest with yourself first and think about what you have in your life now and is it worth the risk. And if you are married that you both are truthful to say what you feel in your heart and believe in and not to just satisfy your partner’s needs or wants. Because in the end you will regret your decision and you will have to live with the choice that you made and the outcome may cause hardship to your married relationship with your spouse.

With that said I wish all who venture in a threesome that they enjoy it and I hope it works out well for all who participated in the experience.

Lts♥

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